After you have chosen to take the actions steps to overcome your chronic loneliness you have to get started on taking those stepsYour decision about whether to act or not depends on your opinion of the difficulty of the steps and the chances of their success.

Well, here are the initial steps:

1Find out what is causing your interactions with other humans to end in failureOne way to find that out is to observe your internal dialogue before, during and after you meet people.

2Ponder over how the same interaction could have ended in success.

3Apply your knowledge in your next interaction with a human being.

4Repeat steps 1, 2 and 3Practice, practice, practise.

You will find that besides having chronic loneliness as a natural state, human beings also have selfishness as a natural stateThat is not to say you will not encounter unselfish human beings but for you to win friends you will have to take into account the natural selfishness of human beingsIn general, a lot of human beings have become unfriendly and it has become difficult to make friendsOnce you leave the safe environments of school and college, you can only hope to make friends via a common interest, cause or hobby.

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